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What you see depends on what you look for. Discover ways to stay positive in the midst of negative events happening in the world. A monthly ezine for organizations, business owners and professionals who want to excel.NOVEMBER 2005 IN THIS ISSUE Greetings and welcome to all of you. We are delighted to send you another issue of KEYS TO SUCCESS. Thank you for joining us. The feature article emphasizes ways you can keep from drowning in negativity. Discover techniques you can develop and retain for a positive outlook on life when you are inundated with pictures and stories of major disasters. Al and I are traveling down under to the great lands of Australia, New Zealand and Fiji this month. We are looking forward to many wonderful experiences and sights along the way. Our commitment is to give you practical information and inspirational ideas to benefit your business and personal life. We are committed to "bringing out your best"! We welcome feedback so we can improve and offer real value to you. Keys to Success is written and published by Carol Gegner. Are you ready to excel? Check out http://www.coachexecs.com. We are ready to help you. Any questions about your subscription? Check the end of the newsletter for information to subscribe or unsubscribe. If you like what you see, will you please help us grow by forwarding the ezine to your colleagues and friends? We truly appreciate your support. John Lubbock said that what we see depends on what we are looking for. How can we stay positive when we are inundated with news of earthquakes, hurricanes, floods and wars? All those negative images and messages can easily lead us down the path of doom and gloom. If all we look for is the dark side of life,that's what we see. We become a naysayer. Pessimism chips away at our views, beliefs, values and thoughts. We then begin to see and create the global drama on a personal level. We get caught in a quagmire of negativity. Current events, as bad as they are, do not have to rule our lives. I am not espousing denial of what is happening in our world. I am suggesting we owe it to ourselves to look for the bright side to round out the picture of what we see. Looking for the good feeds a sense of empowerment versus helplessness. The following ideas are things you can use to instill hope and optimism into your life. *Seek a little humor in your day. Read the cartoons or rent a funny *Donate your time or money to a worthy cause. Helping those less *Read an inspirational or motivational quote every day. It will help *Use daily rituals. Lighting a candle can help you connect to your *Focus on today. You can't change the past, predict the future or November is a time to celebrate and be thankful. In the coming weeks we will be celebrating Veteran's Day and Thanksgiving in the United States. Both of those holidays are special remembrances. No matter where you live in the world, you can add to your life's cornucopia by celebrating and giving thanks for who you are, what you have and what you can do. Life can still be beautiful in the midst of disasters. It all depends on what you are looking for. "Optimists are right. So are pessimists. It's up to you to choose which you will be." "Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier." "Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it." "Positive emotions: -Protect us from, and can undo the effects of, negative emotions -Fuel resilience and can transform people -Broaden our thinking, encouraging us to discover new lines of thought or action -Break down racial barriers -Build durable physical, intellectual, social, and psychological resources that can function as 'reserves' during trying times -Produce optimal functioning in organizations and individuals -Improve the overall performance of a group (when leaders express more positive emotions (Rath & Clifton, 2004, p. 62)." Reference: Rath, T.; & Clifton, D.O., (2004). How full is your bucket?:positive strategies for work and life. New York: Gallup Press. Are you living a positive life? Reprinted with permission from OSU Leadership Center, Ohio State University.Learn how the Ohio State University Leadership Center is strengthening tomorrow's leaders today at http://leadershipcenter.osu.edu Return to the Newsletter Index. |