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Intuition is not magic. It is your ability to make decisions instantly and spontaneously. Learning to trust it and use it wisely is often a challenge. It explains how you know what you don't know! A monthly ezine for organizations, business owners and professionals who want to excel.April 2005 IN THIS ISSUE Greetings and welcome to all of you. We are delighted to send you another issue of KEYS TO SUCCESS. Thank you for joining us. This is anniversary time! On April 1, 1999 we published the very first issue of Keys to Success and now here it is April 1, 2005. I am quite proud of that accomplishment. I have all of you to thank for keeping me inspired to continue publishing each month. This month's feature article is about intuition and making sense out of things we can't really explain. Reading Malcolm Gladwell's book "Blink" influenced my choice of what to write about this month. I highly recommend the book for a better understanding of those flashes of truth we experience but can't explain. Our commitment is to give you practical information and inspirational ideas to benefit your business and personal life. We are committed to "bringing out your best"! We welcome feedback so we can improve and offer real value to you. Keys to Success is written and published by Carol Gegner. Are you ready to excel? Check out http://www.coachexecs.com. We are ready to help you. Any questions about your subscription? Check the end of the newsletter for information to subscribe or unsubscribe. If you like what you see, will you please help us grow by forwarding the ezine to your colleagues and friends? We truly appreciate your support. What You Know Ever wonder how it is that you know something but you can't explain how you know it? It isn't magic. It's your intuition at work. We all have intuition yet we don't always listen to it. Why? Because we can't justify or explain it to ourselves or others. What is intuition? Webster defines it as an immediate apprehension or cognition. Others define it as the brain's ability to recognize patterns from past experiences and to retrieve those patterns from memory. Malcolm Gladwell describes it as "thin slicing" in his newest book "Blink". It is our unconscious ability to find patterns in situations based on very narrow slices of experience. We have instant and spontaneous impressions when we meet a new person. We are unconsciously sizing up that person based on lots of nonverbal visual clues like appearance, eye movements, hand gestures and body motions. And we do it in a flash! Think of the last time you interviewed a potential new employee or met someone new at a social function. How did you base your impression of that person? Now imagine that person standing behind a screen so you couldn't see them but you could hear them. Would your impression be different? We also use our intuition to make decisions under stress. We don't have the luxury of time to figure out what to do. We go into instant action and respond without conscious thought. It's like automatically stepping on the brake of your car when the cars in front of you stopped quickly and you haven't. There is no time to think, you just do. Sometimes we confront complex situations and we need to decide what to do. We gather all the information and it just doesn't feel right. Do you listen and follow your intuition or do you make your decision based on the information. Ray Kroc did just that when his lawyers told him not buy out the McDonald brothers' drive-in restaurant for $2.7 million in 1960. He followed his intuition and the rest is history! There are times when too much information gets in the way of making decisions. I was working with a client who talked about a feeling that "niggled" at her regarding the way a certain reporting process was being handled in her department. That process didn't feel right to her. Something was missing. She couldn't ignore the "niggle" any longer and she discussed her thoughts with the management team. Turns out her intuition was right on and the reporting process was changed to more accurately follow the necessary guidelines. We can't always explain the ins and outs of our intuition or gut feelings. In fact we often don't even trust them. Yet those fleeting intuitive moments help us in our everyday lives when we pay attention to them. "Thin slicing" helps you recognize that you do know what you don't know without thinking about it! "The only real valuable thing is intuition." "Often you just have to rely on intuition." "Intuition: going your way without inquiring about the way." Legend has it that the great Green Bay Packer coach, Vince The coach knew the importance of understanding and reviewing the I love sharing new ideas, new resources and new strategies with When I re-read some of my own articles and reports I've written What are the basics in YOUR life? What's really important to In any family, any business, any LIFE, we find ourselves doing From time to time, we have to get back to the basics. What do we Many people today yearn for a simpler life. That's good. But we We have to get back to the basics. Action Point Time is our most precious resource. And it's paramount we do Have a conversation about these ideas with your spouse, partner Return to the Newsletter Index. |